Girl trouble :P

LeadHead · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:38 am

[color=#ff00f6][color=#2a00ff]hey, since this is the "student" forums, it seems okay to me to be able to ask aloud my problems and ask for advice from fellow geeks of the world.(Due to the fact girls are a part of every day student life)

I have this girl friend, we live bout 2 hours away from each other (i guess a loong distance relastiionship'')
and she just went into her frist year of high school.

i trust her enough, but i keep thinking about all the 'new' guys im sure she'll meet and i wonder if im good enough to even bother trying to keep this thing going.

ever since shes gotten into highschool i've heard bout this guy and that guy, and hes bugging her and hes saying this and blah blah blah.

i have to constantly "talk" to these guys over the phone and msn bout how wisae it would bo to leave her alon... and im getting tired of it.

i love her hecka lots but i just want to know what you guys/gals think.

(Yes i know this isent a help fourm for probelm matic ppl and there lives but it is a student fourm, and this is a student related topic even if it is just about me..... sory if i pissed any one off for writeing about what some ppl may think is not important, but it means the world to me.)[/color][/color]

lordroba · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 9:00 am

It should be your girlfriend's job to tell other guys that she's taken, not yours. You shouldn't have to be talking to other guys over msn for her. (most girls find that unattractive. It shows you're jealous of something they have and you don't). Your job should be to protect her only when a guy is right in her face when you're together. I don't want to be the one to tell you that it's over, but from what you've told me it's not looking good.

LeadHead · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 9:11 am

sorry i dident specifi. she tells me to talk to them i dont just right out do it.

jeffgreco13 · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:03 am

k... she's going into high school now? how old are you??

lordroba's absolutely right. no use getting bent out of shape too much bud cause inevitably by the end of high school 99% chance u wont be together anyway. Not that she's gonna cheat or ur not good enough... just ppl change and when high school is supposed to be an experience no one forgets, its hard to justify being in a LD relationship for its entirety.

Are u in high school too?

LeadHead · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 11:59 am

yah im in grade 11

Zeroth · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 12:26 pm

Yes, definitely. It is up to her. If they keep pursuing her, in spite of her telling them she is taken, then they need to learn to back off. Oh, go for a photography session, and have her have the pictures to show the guys, as proof.

Roman · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 2:40 pm

Hehe good advice Zeroth =)

Gr. 9 guys will be intimidated by a Gr. 11 so you shouldn't have much of a problem. Best of luck!

-RZ

jeffgreco13 · **Posted:** Tue Sep 16, 2008 7:25 pm

Yeah but like he said she's not at his school...

and dont be naive man if those guys are pursuing her and shit its cause she is NOT making it clear to them that she's taken.

StealthArcher · **Posted:** Wed Sep 17, 2008 2:38 am

Wanna bet?

SNIPERDUDE · **Posted:** Wed Sep 17, 2008 8:36 am

LeadHead, you really need to work on your spelling and grammar. I'm sorry, jst evri1 tlking liek dis really p**ses me off.

Anywho lordraba and jeffgreco said it well enough, so there's no point in me repeating.

Dan · **Posted:** Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:53 am

It seems simple to me, if she cheats on you she was never any good to start with. So don't do anything just stop worrying and be normal and enjoy life.

Also i think jeffgreco13 view that the realtionship is doomed just becues you both are in high school is some what silly. Peoleop are in a constant stae of change in high school or not and an "experience no one forgets" is not sposted to mean sleep with as many peoleop as posible.

I think alot of relationships in high school fail becues the persons in them do not take them secuerisy and just have realtionships for the sake of having relationships. If LeadHead is honest about turly loving his girl firned and she feels the same i see no reason why they can't make it threw high school together.

The true test of love is if you can stay together threw the changes, troubles and experinces of life.

nike52 · **Posted:** Wed Sep 17, 2008 11:51 am

There'll be other girls, my friend.

LeadHead · **Posted:** Fri Sep 19, 2008 7:55 am

Alright. your opinions and therys have been noted, and i thank you all for takeing the time out of your days to write to me and possibly any one else haveing a experience similar to my own.

It turns out, as usaul i was blowing things way out of proportion and i never had to worry about it in the frist place. but thank you all any ways.

I'd give you each a high five but its kind of impossible as of right now. Canada

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